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Living without credit cards (Part 3)

September 28th, 2010 by D. L.
Posted in Budgeting, Credit Cards, Financial Tips, Planning, Savings Account
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A petty cash fund can go a long way towards relieving financial pressure from budgeting
Feeling the pressure of living on a budget? A petty cash fund can help relieve the pressure and re-train your mind in sound financial principles.
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In addition to flexibility in your monthly budget and some way to plan for less-than-monthly expenses, there is one more thing you need to have if you want to successfully live without credit cards: Money.

It might seem beyond obvious to say that you need to have money to live without credit cards. But in reality, most people do not have much money available on a moment's notice to cover unexpected expenses, impulse purchases, forgotten birthdays, and other expenses. That's precisely why most of us carry credit cards (or at least, it is the reason most of us signed up for our first credit card). So where do you turn when you forget someone's birthday, when you get invited to go out to dinner unexpectedly, when you have an opportunity to buy something now for less than you would have to pay if you waited until you need it? Most of us turn to our credit cards to handle these expenses. But if we want to live without credit cards, we need another solution: The petty cash fund.

"Everyone" knows you should have some money set aside for emergencies. I've mentioned it several times in this blog. Every financial book I've read, every financial seminar, every bit of counsel I've had makes it clear that it is important to have an emergency savings account. There may not be a clear consensus of how much you should have in your account, but there is little question that it is a necessity. But I know as well as anyone just how difficult it can be to establish such an emergency fund. And I know as well as anyone just how tempting it can be to dip into that money for things that really don't qualify as emergencies. What's even worse, however, is that even if you are able to establish an emergency savings account and keep yourself from using it except for actual emergencies, it's still not enough. You also need to have some money available that you can use whenever you need, for whatever you need, without guilt or remorse. Many businesses have a "Petty Cash" fund—a certain amount of money that can be used as needed without the need to budget for it in advance or keep detailed records of what it was used for and why. I believe that individuals should follow the same practice and will have to create their own petty cash fund before they can do away with credit cards completely.

Like your emergency savings account, the amount you should have on hand in your petty cash fund will vary depending on your financial situation. In general, I think you should have no less than $50, and more reasonably you should have around $250 to $500 if at all possible. Rather than deciding on how much money to put into the account, I think you should first look at your budget and identify how much you can afford to contribute to this fund on a monthly basis. If you're following my plan, you can look at how much you've set aside for your "BBB" budget item. Then, you should set aside whatever amount of money you'd be able to repay within about 6 months. The idea is to keep your petty cash fund large enough that it can be useful to cover life's unexpected (but not emergency) expenses whenever they occur, but small enough that you can fully fund (or re-fund) it in a relatively short period of time. If you don't have enough money to cover unexpected expenses, your petty cash fund doesn't do you any good. And if it takes you more than a few months to re-fund whatever you've taken out of the account, you won't get the sense of freedom from the petty cash fund that you should feel.

One of the primary reasons so many people find it difficult, if not impossible, to live on a strict budget is because they feel too restricted. In general, it's a good idea to know exactly where your money needs to go every month. But if you're facing a financial situation that is going to take years to recover, it's not reasonable to assume that you can go through life year after year without ever once spending money on something outside your official budget. A petty cash fund can go a long way towards providing a "pressure release valve" in your finances, allowing you to feel like there's at least a small part of your finances that can be used at need, on a whim, and without guilt or remorse. And, more importantly, a petty cash fund will help re-train your thinking about money so you can get into (or back into) the habit of setting aside money today for the things you might need or want tomorrow.

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Living without credit cards (Part 2)

September 22nd, 2010 by D. L.
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The Ant and the Grasshopper: Age-old advice that applies today
We could do well living by the moral of Aesop's The Ant and the Grasshopper: "Prepare for want before it comes."
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I tried to ignore it, but it happened anyway: My daughter's Girl Scout fees are due in a few days. In fact, they are due on the same day that we have to pay for her next Scouting adventure. All together, that comes out to more than $50. It's not a lot of money, and it's certainly not something that should have taken me by surprise. I've known about the Girl Scout fees since I paid the same amount the same time last year, and I've known that we'd have to pay for this particular outing for more than a month. And yet, I don't have the money. It's times like these that I'm severely tempted to pull out the credit cards and just go ahead and pay for things that way. After all, if I have to pay for something, and I don't have the money, what choice do I have?

This situation is one that people like me face every day. Our society has grown so dependent on credit cards that we rarely even think twice about buying something that we can't afford. We try to rationalize it to ourselves by saying, "It's not that much money," or "I deserve this," or "the kids deserve this." We try to convince ourselves that we can afford it. I know I'm not going to tell my daughter she can't be in Girl Scouts any more because I can't afford the very minimal troop dues, or that she can't go on this outing because I can't afford the equally minimal fees. In fact, I know I can afford the $50. I just can't afford it today! This "eat now, pay later" idea has infused every aspect of our lives, and we rarely stop to consider the consequences. Or, more importantly, to consider the alternatives.

Perhaps it's time to re-read the Aesop's fable of The Ant and the Grasshopper. In the story, the ant toils away through the summer, building a home and storing away food for the long winter, while the grasshopper whiles away the summer singing and dancing. Come winter, the grasshopper has no food or shelter, but the ant is warm and well-fed.

Throughout history, the basic rules of economics have forced people to live as the ant did—at least to some degree. For the most part, if you didn't have money, you couldn't find food, shelter, or other goods. Naturally, this isn't the first time in human history that people have come to rely on credit, but I think it is the first time that the vast majority of the general public depends on credit to survive from one month to the next. The idea that we should have enough money to buy whatever it is we want or need before we go to the store and get it is simply beyond our understanding.

A dependence on credit cards turns everything around backwards, allowing us to buy impulsively, and only try to figure out how to pay after the fact. If you want to live your life without credit cards, you have to start thinking about the future, rather than the past. When I realized that, once again, I couldn't afford to pay for something that I should have known was coming up, I realized I need to start thinking about my finances differently. Or rather, I need to start thinking about my finances consistently.

You see, I already budget my money. I have bills that are due once a month, but I am paid twice a month. I know exactly how much my bills will cost, and I make sure that I set aside enough money from every paycheck to cover my bills. But that's not the whole financial picture. I have certain bills and other expenses that only come once or twice a year, such as auto insurance and my children's birthdays. I have already calculated how much money I need to set aside each month for these bills, and have set up a direct deposit of a certain portion of my paycheck each month to go into this account, which I refer to as a "Deferred Spending" account. I've been doing this for years now, and it has worked out very well.

So I realized that, instead of acting surprised every year when I have to pay for school supplies, school pictures, Girl Scout fees, fundraisers, and the like, I need to do a better job of planning out these expenses. So I'm going to sit down and think about all of these "surprise" expenses that pop up throughout the year, and try to estimate what they will cost me on a yearly basis. Then, I'll adjust the amount of money that is going into my deferred spending account to reflect these other expenses.

The problem is, as this deferred spending account grows, so does the temptation to "borrow" from it when I'm a little short on money. Also, the more expenses I am saving for in this account, the more careful I have to be about making sure that I have enough money in this account to cover those expenses that are coming up. If I'm only saving up for my car insurance payment, for example, I can easily look at the account balance and get a sense of how well I'm doing. On the other hand, if I have a hundred little things that I'm saving for in this one account, it will be very difficult to take a snapshot of the account and get a feel for whether I am on track for my savings.

This dilemma is what has been holding me up for several years now. Because I'm not sure how to handle a large and complex deferred spending account, I have simply avoided re-evaluating my contributions to this account for years now. And now I realize that this is one of the major reasons that I've never been able to do away with my credit cards once and for all. I feel like I need to keep them around in case I'm "surprised" by an expense that I've agreed to pay, but haven't planned for. Rather than face the embarrassment or consequences of not being able to pay, I pull out the credit card and pretend that I've got everything under control.

I've been pretty successful so far at budgeting my month-to-month expenses. But if I want to ever get to the point where I don't need my credit cards at all any more, I need to go beyond a month-to-month (or paycheck-to-paycheck) budget and start budgeting from year-to-year as well.

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Living without credit cards (Part 1)

September 16th, 2010 by D. L.
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Cash or Credit?
Living without credit cards sounds great. But how do you replace something you've come to depend on?
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One of the first things everyone tells you when you are trying to get out of debt is, "Stop using your credit cards!" This is absolutely fabulous advice, and, if followed, will indeed help most people reduce or even eliminate their debts.

There's only one problem. It's harder for most people to completely stop using credit cards than they would ever imagine. For most people in this day and age, using credit cards is a way of life. And most of us would have a hard time even knowing where to begin. I know I did...

Several years ago, my financial situation went from "Don't worry, I've got it all under control," to "Oh, please God, get me out of this mess!" I had wracked up nearly $20,000 in credit card debts and had no idea how I was going to get out of debt. I started asking for help from anyone I talked to, and I took financial classes to try to get some help figuring out how to manage my financial nightmare. Naturally, the first bit of advice I received was to stop using my credit cards. Right away, I could see the value of this advice, and I made a decision to put away my credit cards for good. I stashed them away in the closet, resolving not to pull them out again unless it was an emergency. I didn't have the guts to cut them up, so I just tucked them away.

It wasn't long, however, before I got slammed with an unexpected bill. I can't remember what that first one was, but considering I had a new baby and had just moved from renting to owning my own house, it could have been anything. Whatever it was, I couldn't pay it, but I couldn't ignore it either. I had no choice but to pull out my credit card to pay this unexpected bill. I vowed to only use my card for this one expense, and then put it away for good.

As you can probably imagine, it wasn't much longer before I found myself once again facing an unexpected expense that I couldn't afford, but couldn't ignore. Once again, it was credit cards to the rescue. This went on for years. Every time I started to get my finances under control and start paying off my credit cards, something happened that required me to pull them out again. It was frustrating, but it seemed like there was nothing I could do to prevent it.

Over the years, I've finally come to accept the fact that just getting rid of (or hiding) your credit cards simply doesn't work for everyone. The fact is, before you can rid yourself of your credit cards, you have to have something to replace them with. Naturally, a good budget can help you minimize your credit card use. But to deal with life's truly unexpected expenses, you need to have access to some money. For most people, this means having a savings account.

I knew that I needed a savings account, of course. There wasn't any question in my mind all those years that I should have some money set aside to handle life's little unexpected expenses. The problem was, every time I managed to get some money put aside, one of those unexpected expenses would come along and eat it all up, leaving me hurting when the next expense took me by surprise.

A savings account alone isn't enough. You also need to have a way to regularly fund (or re-fund) your savings account. This was the piece I was missing, not because I didn't understand it, but because I simply didn't have enough money at the end of the month to contribute to my savings account. But things have changed a little bit, and for the first time, I'm able to add a few dollars to my budget to fund my savings account. Finally, after years of struggling, I feel like I have a way to wean myself off of credit cards.

Here's how I've set it up: I have a $1,500 emergency savings account (thanks to an unusually large income tax refund this year). In addition, I added a $40/month budget item that I simply list as "BBB." Every month, I decide what to use my BBB money for.

  • If my emergency savings account is below $1,500, that money goes to raise the Balance of my savings account.

  • If my emergency savings account has the full $1,500 available, and I'm comfortable with the rest of my finances, I use that money to Boost my credit card payments.

  • If my emergency savings account has the full $1,500 available, but I'm feeling frustrated about my financial situation or have something that I particularly need or want, I Blow that money on something for myself.

The best part about this system is knowing that if I need to dip into my savings account to cover some unexpected expense, I have a way to rebuild that account over time. Since the unexpected expenses I've had to face are generally under $500, I can easily handle them when they occur, and have my savings account fully funded again within a year.

Even better, having the flexibility to control how I spend that $40 each month helps minimize the temptation to spend money on things I don't need. If I really want something badly enough, I can use that money to satisfy that desire. But I can't just pull out a credit card and pay for it without thinking. I have to deliberately choose to take that money that could be put to better use and spend it on myself instead. That makes it a lot easier to resist temptation.

Living without credit cards isn't always possible. But having something to replace the flexibility of handling unexpected expenses and the freedom to occasionally spend money selfishly can go a long way towards easing the transition from absolute dependence on credit cards to complete freedom from them.

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